Here is the first issue raised in the post: "...what i am struggling the most with right now is feeling like I am part of the campus community. i am a fulltime student, commute to campus, and work."
Feeling as if you are part of the campus community, as a graduate student (who works) can be a challenge. Given that you are in student affairs (that is my background too!), I can imagine that you were an involved undergraduate so the transition is even trickier.
I encourage you to think more about how it is that you would really like to feel "part of" the campus community. Is it about having a group on campus with which you are affiliated, is it about connection with faculty, is it about contributing to the campus community? Other ideas?
I think that it is generally more difficult for grad students to get connected -- the opportunities are not as obvious as they were on the undergrad level, plus as you noted, in many cases, we are commuting to campus and/or working.
We'll talk about connecting with faculty later in the week. For now, a few other ideas (and keep in mind, I don't know what your time constraints are):
- Graduate student organizations? Graduate student government?
- Committees on campus that seek graduate student participation? Check with the provost and or dean of student affairs to explore this.
- Undergraduate organizations that may be interested in a grad advisor?
- Recruit others from your dept to field an intramural team
Do any of these resonate? What kind of campus connections you are seeking?
Cheers,
Harriet
I tried participating in a campus activity when I first started my grad studies - it was a Yoga class and frankly, their start times made it next to impossible for a working student to attend.
ReplyDeleteThe few yoga classes I did, I felt very out of place.
The only grad student association that works for me is meeting classmates before class for a quick bite to eat! :)